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Question: Why are women treated as inferior to men in Islam? Of the many things that have continued to bother my mind is the share daughters get in relation to their brothers. As a brother, I feel ashamed that I would be getting double my sister’s share. Please clarify. Answer: It needs to be appreciated that the law of inheritance as stated in the Qur’an is based on the underlying cause of ‘the benefit of kinship’:
In other words, the directive in reality
does not pertain to the relatives but is related to the underlying cause
present in this relationship, which actually entitles them to become the
heirs. Consequently, the basic reason why the share of a son is more than
that of a daughter is the fact that in the life of parents the son is usually
more beneficial to them than the daughter. This is so simple a fact that
it can be easily understood in societies where the institution of family
is still very strong and has deep roots. In a family system, parents become
dependent on the children as they grow old. The ease and comfort they feel
in living with a son is much more than what they feel while living with
a daughter. The simple reason is that a son is independent in taking decisions
while a daughter, once she gets married, is actually more dependent on
her own husband and is not so independent. The modern western mind feels
averse to this distribution because the family system is dwindling in their
society. Parents are generally more uncomfortable in living with either
the son or the daughter, both of whom become independent at a very early
age. So I would say that they can only understand if they are first able
to grasp the importance of the institution of family.
(Shehzad Saleem) |